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Do You Hear What I Hear? Actually, I Hear Better!

2021-09-20T10:28:11-06:00 September 21st, 2021|Categories: DISC and Communication|Tags: , |

Back on June 22, 2021, I shared how the C-Style prefers to communicate in the blogpost, "Can We Talk About the Numbers and Details, Please?!" There is another important side to this communication coin - Listening Skills. Recently, Extended DISC of North America did a valuable webinar on the Listening Skills of each DISC Style. As [...]

Permission is Important and Worth the Wait

2021-09-13T22:05:52-06:00 September 14th, 2021|Categories: Adult to Child|Tags: |

It has been extremely enlightening to get Charles Boyd's book, Different Children, Different Needs, down off my bookshelf again. But before I utilize too much of his book, I know it is important to get his permission. While I wait to hear back from him, I am also taking time to help my dear 97-year-old Dad, so [...]

How Does an Adult and a Child Express Their Unique DISC Styles?

2021-09-06T16:25:48-06:00 September 7th, 2021|Categories: Adult to Child|Tags: , |

As I mentioned in last week's blogpost, How Each DISC Style Best Relates Adult to Child, the graphs for our DISC Styles for my husband and me are exact opposites. Then we had three children who were each a unique combination of the two of us. Over the years, we learned lots of valuable lessons on [...]

How Each DISC Style Best Relates Adult to Child

2021-08-30T20:10:10-06:00 August 31st, 2021|Categories: Adult to Child|Tags: |

Whether you are a parent seeking to raise your children well, an aunt or uncle with nieces and nephews who are dear to you, a neighbor with little ones next door, or a dentist with a vast array of types of young patients, how to best interact with them is a skill you can learn. Utilizing [...]

HELP! I’m Struggling as a “Squelchee” Stuck in a Box!

2021-08-23T14:07:06-06:00 August 24th, 2021|Categories: Be Who You Are|Tags: |

I'm watching a football game with my dad... and realize the excellent example it is of what is means to struggle as a "squelchee". There they are, trying to play the position they are designed for, while all these other players are trying their hardest to keep them from making any progress. When I realize I [...]

How to Know If I Am Being a Dreaded “Style Squelcher”

2021-08-16T06:34:38-06:00 August 17th, 2021|Categories: Be Who You Are|Tags: , |

This hits home because I realize too often THIS IS ME! Yikes! Nearly 49 years ago, when I first met my husband, I had never spent much time around anyone who was a VHDS (Very High D-Style). And he had never spent much time around anyone whose VHIS (Very High I-Style) was nearly at the top [...]