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Am I a Positive Mirror to the Children in My Life?

2021-11-15T16:30:21-07:00 November 2nd, 2021|Categories: Adult to Child|Tags: , |

While I wait for permission to share more about how DISC Styles influence adult/child interactions, there are a few critically important adult/child lessons I've learned over many years of parenting and teaching that are worth sharing here. The first is the concept of being a Positive Mirror. Our youngest child, a son, followed two older sisters, who [...]

I Think I Would Understand You Better If You Were More Like Me!

2021-11-15T16:31:41-07:00 October 26th, 2021|Categories: Adult to Child|Tags: , |

When our children were growing up, we often referred to our family as having "too many chiefs". Too many of us wanted to be in charge, which often left to "interesting" interactions. As I've mentioned before, the DISC graphs for my husband and me are opposites of each other. Then the graphs for our three children [...]

What If You Could Wave a Magic Wand Over Listening Skills?

2021-10-19T12:22:21-06:00 October 19th, 2021|Categories: DISC and Communication|Tags: , |

Have you ever wanted to have a special power, just for a few minutes, to be able to deal with a nagging challenge or problem? Though I'm not a fan of magic [I'm a much bigger fan of prayer, learning and effort], it is fascinating to think about the possibilities. I have learned a lot going [...]

YES! I’m Listening… It Just Sounds Like I’m Doing All the Talking

2021-10-11T11:11:55-06:00 October 12th, 2021|Categories: DISC and Communication|Tags: , , |

It is easy to spot a High D-Style person. Their take-charge approach, along with their strong decisive drive and energy get a lot accomplished. But similar to the I-Style folks, listening well may not be their strong suit. In fact, listening is often one of their biggest challenges. We've looked at how the C-Styles, S-Styles and [...]

I am SO EXCITED to Listen to You that I Can’t Stop Talking!

2021-10-04T19:38:03-06:00 October 5th, 2021|Categories: DISC and Communication|Tags: , , |

It's not hard to picture a High I-Style person. They have boundless energy and enthusiasm, usually with lots of ideas and persuasion to go with it. But listening well may not be their strong suit. We've looked at how C-Style and S-Style folks tend to listen. In keeping with "working backwards" through the DISC Styles, this [...]

How an S-Style Patiently Listens – If Only We Knew What They Were Thinking!

2021-09-27T08:45:06-06:00 September 28th, 2021|Categories: DISC and Communication|Tags: , , |

Last week, we looked at how a C-Style tends to listen. In keeping with "working backwards" through the DISC Styles, this week we'll review the S-Style's listening tendencies. Always, as this picture says, it is a good goal to "Speak Less, Listen More". But for a high S-Style, it is their deep conviction. Because the S-Style [...]