So far we’ve looked at how the task-focused High D person and the people-focused High I person prefer that others communicate with them. If you want to read or review these, just click here.
This week, let’s talk about the patient, people-loving High S-Style person.
First, as a reminder, here are the High S-Style’s tendencies:
- Dependable
- Steady
- Persistent
- Extremely patient
- Cooperative – a great Team Player
- Focuses on people
- Often has a slower “motor” – walks slower, talks slower, thinks slower
Not surprisingly then, they appreciate communication from others that:
- Gives them time to think
- Involves a calm approach
- Is consistent
- Shows benefits of change
All of these points will make it easier for the High S-Style person to listen well and stay engaged with what others are trying to say to them.
The S-Style is my other highest in rank. One thing I learned (and had to relearn over and over) during our year-long house-building project – it is critical that I have time to calmly think over all the points and options involved in whatever we needed for the Decisions for the Day. But I also had to make those decisions in a timely manner, so our builder wasn’t waiting on me. It was key to stay a step ahead in the decision-making process, so we didn’t slow our builders down. One of my life mottos came in handy: “Pray – Plan – Persevere.”
QUESTION: Does the importance of knowing how best to communicate with each Style resonate with you? I’d love to hear your thoughts and observations. Please share in the comment section below.
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