I’m watching a football game with my dad… and realize the excellent example it is of what is means to struggle as a “squelchee”. There they are, trying to play the position they are designed for, while all these other players are trying their hardest to keep them from making any progress.
When I realize I am struggling as the “squelchee”, I’m usually feeling:
- Frustrated by any eye-rolling
- Boxed in without the opportunity to break out of the box
- Put down by sarcastic remarks
- Shackled or like I’m dragging a weight around
Wise responses are:
- Be aware of the situation
- Don’t fall into a “victim” or “martyr” mentality
- Wisely discern when to address it and when to let it pass
- Choose not to let the situation keep me from being true to myself
This whole “squelchee and squelcher” process is quite an involved and sometimes complicated one. I hope these last few weeks of discussing each side have given you something to consider, be extra aware of, and take steps to rectify when it is happening.
QUESTION: Have you ever realized you were in a “squelchee” situation? How did you respond? What did you learn from it? I’d love to hear your thoughts and observations. Please share in the comment section below.
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